Some specific 'flirting' tips for the ladies and the guys.

For the ladies....

1. Look nice.
   • Guys tend to be a little more visually-oriented than girls. You don't have to overdo it, but you should be conscious of your appearance.
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2. Smile!
   • We did already go over this, but it's very important to look genuine and approachable instead of cold and nasty. Otherwise the flirting may never even begin.
3. Be yourself.
   • Don't try to dumb it down. Most guys would rather talk to a girl who can actually carry on a conversation.
   • Don't try too hard. Just be yourself and be friendly!
4. Give the right signals.
   • Play with your hair, laugh at his jokes, bat your eyelashes, touch his arm. Giving signals that you're interested and enjoying yourself will encourage the flirting to continue, possibly to the next level.
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5. If you're into it, go for it.
   • In this day and age, it's not always up to the guy to make a move. Especially if you are dealing with a shy person, it's perfectly acceptable for you to initiate the next step in the flirting process.
6. Don't flirt with someone you're not interested in.
   • Guys often mistake regular friendliness for romantic flirting. If you're not interested in someone, flirting with them will only lead them on and possibly create an awkward scene later (even if you thought you gave some pretty obvious signals).

Here's and example:she looks cute.dontcha think?haha :P













For the Dude's..

1. Listen!
   • It's true, we already went over this before. But this is extremely important for the gender that's most listening-challenged.
   • Listen for key words and phrases that she says that you can bring up later or ask questions about to keep the conversation going.
   • Listen for open-ended questions that may be a set-up to ask her out. This can work with common interests ("do you like mini golfing?") and especially anything having to do with dinner, movies, or other date-like activities.
   • Because listening can be so difficult for guys, she will notice if you do it well.
2. Keep relaxed body language.
   • Lean back instead of in when talking to her. You want to come off as confident and relaxed, not desperate and needy.
3. Be naughty and nice.
   • Mixing the occasional compliment with playful teasing can keep her guessing what you'll say next.
   • Keep your sense of humor in full force. Just insulting her will end your flirting before it's begun. The idea is to add an element of mystery and unexpectedness.
   • Simply gushing over her with a steady stream of compliments can actually make you seem desperate.
4. Add up the signs.
   • Math may not be your strong suit, but you can't take any one signal as your guaranteed ticket in. Women tend to be naturally flirtatious, and men often mistake friendliness for romantic interest. Also, some signals may be a false alarm (crossing her arms could just mean she's cold). Therefore, you need to assess as many signals as you possibly can in order to establish whether she is interested or not.
   • Some positive signals include:
   1. Constant eye contact with dilated pupils
   2. Touching your arm or leg during conversation
   3. Crossing her leg towards you
   4. Playing with her hair
   5. Hearty laughter at your jokes
   6. Eyelash batting
   7. Compliments
   • Some negative signals include:
   1. Crossing her arms
   2. Not retaining eye contact/looking distant or uninterested
   3. Leaning away when you lean in, or turning her body away
   4. Constantly repeating how great her boyfriend is (some guys just don't get the hint)
5. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
   • The only true way to guarantee that nothing will come from your attempt at flirting is to not flirt at all.

See guy's:this guy is actually listening to his girl..haha =)

Haha...so,people.do take care of your current relationship and if your single and in need..take my tips and follow them and just maybe you might get who you want...;P