Happy New Year!Here comes 2010.

Happy New Year!!!...

well my new year countdown wasn't all that exciting...mostly cause i was just packing my stuff for tomorrow or today i guess...

at least something cheered me up.cause this years ending didn't came out how it was cracked to be..just when my hopes were up then...it came crashing down.well the good thing is a few friends cheered me a little just by saying happy new year haha...

so...everyone out there,have a great new year of 2010!yeah...hoping it'll be a better year for me cause i need all the luck i can get,haha..well PMR's coming also..

its gonna be new damn year with more challenges and what not...gonna get what i deserve.and what i wanted for so long...gonna make sure that im gonna enjoy it..haha

so good luck everyone especially my closest friends and family..=)

Some specific 'flirting' tips for the ladies and the guys.

For the ladies....

1. Look nice.
   • Guys tend to be a little more visually-oriented than girls. You don't have to overdo it, but you should be conscious of your appearance.
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2. Smile!
   • We did already go over this, but it's very important to look genuine and approachable instead of cold and nasty. Otherwise the flirting may never even begin.
3. Be yourself.
   • Don't try to dumb it down. Most guys would rather talk to a girl who can actually carry on a conversation.
   • Don't try too hard. Just be yourself and be friendly!
4. Give the right signals.
   • Play with your hair, laugh at his jokes, bat your eyelashes, touch his arm. Giving signals that you're interested and enjoying yourself will encourage the flirting to continue, possibly to the next level.
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5. If you're into it, go for it.
   • In this day and age, it's not always up to the guy to make a move. Especially if you are dealing with a shy person, it's perfectly acceptable for you to initiate the next step in the flirting process.
6. Don't flirt with someone you're not interested in.
   • Guys often mistake regular friendliness for romantic flirting. If you're not interested in someone, flirting with them will only lead them on and possibly create an awkward scene later (even if you thought you gave some pretty obvious signals).

Here's and example:she looks cute.dontcha think?haha :P













For the Dude's..

1. Listen!
   • It's true, we already went over this before. But this is extremely important for the gender that's most listening-challenged.
   • Listen for key words and phrases that she says that you can bring up later or ask questions about to keep the conversation going.
   • Listen for open-ended questions that may be a set-up to ask her out. This can work with common interests ("do you like mini golfing?") and especially anything having to do with dinner, movies, or other date-like activities.
   • Because listening can be so difficult for guys, she will notice if you do it well.
2. Keep relaxed body language.
   • Lean back instead of in when talking to her. You want to come off as confident and relaxed, not desperate and needy.
3. Be naughty and nice.
   • Mixing the occasional compliment with playful teasing can keep her guessing what you'll say next.
   • Keep your sense of humor in full force. Just insulting her will end your flirting before it's begun. The idea is to add an element of mystery and unexpectedness.
   • Simply gushing over her with a steady stream of compliments can actually make you seem desperate.
4. Add up the signs.
   • Math may not be your strong suit, but you can't take any one signal as your guaranteed ticket in. Women tend to be naturally flirtatious, and men often mistake friendliness for romantic interest. Also, some signals may be a false alarm (crossing her arms could just mean she's cold). Therefore, you need to assess as many signals as you possibly can in order to establish whether she is interested or not.
   • Some positive signals include:
   1. Constant eye contact with dilated pupils
   2. Touching your arm or leg during conversation
   3. Crossing her leg towards you
   4. Playing with her hair
   5. Hearty laughter at your jokes
   6. Eyelash batting
   7. Compliments
   • Some negative signals include:
   1. Crossing her arms
   2. Not retaining eye contact/looking distant or uninterested
   3. Leaning away when you lean in, or turning her body away
   4. Constantly repeating how great her boyfriend is (some guys just don't get the hint)
5. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
   • The only true way to guarantee that nothing will come from your attempt at flirting is to not flirt at all.

See guy's:this guy is actually listening to his girl..haha =)

Haha...so,people.do take care of your current relationship and if your single and in need..take my tips and follow them and just maybe you might get who you want...;P

Tips for the guys and gals about "How To Flirt".

Haha..okey here's a little something about flirting..i had nothing to do so,this is what i came up with..


Flirting is a universal activity that can help break the ice and lead to new friendships and romantic relationships. It can also just be a fun way to meet new people or add a little excitement to your day. It isn't limited to clubs and parties; flirting can be a useful skill in everyday life, whether you're browsing your local bookstore or sipping some Starbucks on your lunch break.

Although sometimes it seems that there are very few similarities between genders, some basic guidelines apply to anyone who is about to flirt it up with the opposite sex. The main goal of flirtation is to convey that you are interested in the other person without coming out and saying it (which can invite rejection and embarrassment). But it's worth restating that flirting doesn't have to be romantic at all.

"The Do's And Don'ts"

Do's

1. Do be prepared.
   • This especially applies if you are going somewhere like a party where you know you'll likely be seriously exercising your flirting muscles.
   • Make sure you're showered and smelling nice. This seems obvious, but an offensive odor or bad breath really tends to hamper your flirting abilities.
   • Wear clothing that reflects your style and fits your body type. Dress yourself so you'll be feeling comfortable and confident.

Do make eye contact.

• This is one of the simplest and best ways to determine whether or not you should initially approach someone.

Do control your body language.

• Body language is everything. The fact is, what you say is not nearly as important as what you do.

Do initiate converstation.

• When flirting, it really doesn't matter what you say so much as how you say it. Consequently, having an arsenal of witty pickup lines isn't really necessary or recommended.

Do engage them with how unbelievably interesting you are.

• Once you've begun talking, your next challenge is to not bore them to death.

Do use humor.

• One of the best things two people can share while getting comfortable with each other is a good laugh. Make them laugh, and make them laugh often!

Do smile.

• Keep the conversation light and positive and don't forget to smile.

Do look out for signs and signals.

• Keep an eye out for warning signs. If you come across signals that this person is not interested in flirting (or even talking) with you, make a swift and immediate exit. There will always be someone else to talk to instead of wasting your time and effort on someone who isn't interested.

Do seal the deal.

• So your flirtatious encounter has been going well... Great! Now would be a great time to ask for a phone number or email address (which can seem more non-confrontational). Otherwise you may miss a golden opportunity to see this person again.

1. Do practice.
   • After all, practice makes perfect. The more people you flirt with, the better you'll get at knowing what you should be doing and what to look out for. Plus it's easy... You can practice flirting with people every day!

Dont's

Don't take it too seriously. Remember that most flirting is all in good fun and just a way to meet new people. Most folks you flirt with you'll never even talk to again.

Don't act like a stalker.

• Surprisingly, people don't enjoy being creeped out.

Don't flirt in inappropriate places.

• Flirt at your own risk in the workplace. If you do decide to attempt this, keep it G-rated unless you enjoy a good sexual harassment lawsuit.

Don't be arrogant.

• Confidence + humor can be a magical combination when it comes to flirting. Even a little bit of cocky humor can go a long way. But misjudge the balance and you'll come across as arrogant.

Don't be too forward.

• Don't lose sight of the fact that you've just met this person. If you try to gently segue a compliment about the person's sense of style into a comment that they would probably enjoy meeting your parents before you get engaged, you're likely to see that smile fade into a look of horror.

Don't talk about your ex. The last thing anyone wants to hear about is what your ex was like.

1. Don't be rude.
   • Most flirting is done in public places, so inevitably others may try to join in on the chatting. Even if you're truly "in the zone" while flirting with someone, don't purposely exclude or shut someone out of the conversation. Acting rude won't impress anybody.

Don't overstay your welcome.

• Some quality conversations can last for a half hour. Some of them can last 10 minutes. If you hit a lull, it's time to decide if it's been going well enough to ask for some contact information, or if it's about time you moved on.

1. Don't over do it with the cologne/perfume.
   • Yes, you want to smell nice. No, you don't want your skin glistening with aftershave when you approach someone new. A true friend will help you learn the art of scented subtlety.
   Don't keep trying with someone who just isn't interested.
2. Sometimes you just need to cut your losses. If they're playing hard to get when you first meet them, they're probably not playing at all.

Don't flirt with someone you shouldn't be flirting with.

• Other people's significant others should be considered off limits. Seems obvious, right?

Okey dokey thats all for now later i'll specific the tips for guys and gals..haha
seriously i had nothing to do ...

I Really Wanted This Thing.

I've been saving some money for a while now..but i still dont have enough,and damn i really want this DSLR Camera .I mean who woudln't want it?its the Canon EOS 5D Mark II ! Well Yeah its expensive..why wouln't it be?It has a 21.1-megapixel full-frame CMOS sensor with DIGIC 4 Image Processor, a vast ISO Range of 100-6400 thats not all...plus It supports Live View shooting, Live View HD videos, and more..its a like a dream cam.Man...i wish i can get it as quick as possible..

so i can begin photography with a hell of a DSLR Camera.. yeah it might not be very suitable for beginner but then i wouldn't have to buy a new DSLR for years...haha,Wish me luck ;)

A little something everyone should watch.

Hoped you liked it,haha..

"You should never judge a persons talent no matter how they look,who they are or even if that person is handicapped or how big their dreams are..never underestimate anyone.to make it simple
don't judge a book by its cover..cause just maybe if you open up that book,you just might find something you like..haha :D"

Coulrophobia!!!!

OKay...a few of my friends have clouro phobia..and.
i used to have this phobia too...haha..just wanted to tell everyone about this thing..:D

Coulrophobia is abnormal or exaggerated fear of clowns. The term is common, but it does not appear to be used in psychology. It is common among children, but is also sometimes found in teenagers and adults as well. Sufferers sometimes acquire a fear of clowns after having a bad experience with one personally. It can also be the effect of seeing a sinister portrayal of one in the media, such as the monster that took on the disguise of a clown in Stephen King's novel and film It.

Coulrophobia can also be said to extend to a fear of covering up one's face with paint—the idea of hiding recognisable features under a layer of facepaint can also unsettle coulrophobia sufferers.

Symptoms of coulrophobia can be shortness of breath, rapid breathing, irregular heartbeat, sweating, nausea, dreadfulness.

In July 2006 the Festival, a three-day music festival held in England, had to withdraw a request to festival goers to come dressed as clowns due to the unexpectedly high rate of coulrophobia among the potential audience.

haha..hope you enjoyed reading this and you dont have Clourophobia!

Haha Beware Of Evil Clowns !

its fun haha...

anyone who has facebook i suggest u add this app called happy aquarium,

seriously its really fun haha

Stop Ruining My Fucking Life!!!

Dont u have a life of your own?
why do you have to destroy my damn life?
ruining my holidays...not letting me go out?
im living my shit of a damn life in a hell hole of a fuck prison..
for what stupid reason cant i have fun with friends and cousins during the only long holiday i get a year which i have planned since the middle of this fucking year...

man u know how to piss me off!asshole!!
all i wanted is a fun holiday before i start the new year with more challenges and the PMR coming up...damn,,,...cant i enjoy anything?huh?
You Have Officially Piss Me Off!!!!!!!